Olga turned our house into a Five-Star spa the other day. It was awesome. You have to watch the video above to see the creativity and love she put into this idea. This is yet another example of something that does not take an incredible amount of set-up time but will leave a lasting impression on your partner. As you’ll see in the video, there are 3 main components:
The Waiting Room — Turn your living room into a five-star spa waiting room. Olga had everything that you would expect to see in a five-star spa and more! Newspapers, magazines, fresh fruit, nuts, a pitcher of water with lemon. I already had a huge smile on my face before I even got to the massage room.
The Massage Room – Your bedroom becomes the massage room. Again, Olga replicated the five-star spa experience to a tee with soft music playing, and candles set up around the room. She even offered me two massage oil options, and during the massage, checked to see if the pressure was too hard or too soft. I love my life. [Supplies Note – Olga picked up the tea-lights and massage oils (Lavender Vanilla and Eucalyptus Spearmint) from Bath and Body Works. I couldn’t recommend the massage oils more highly, especially the Lavender Vanilla.]
Post-Massage Experience – After the massage was over, Olga left the room for a few minutes and came back with the warm damp towels just like the masseuses use at the end of a massage. It’s not like we have a commercial towel warmer at our home so I was very impressed. It turns out that this is incredibly easy to do, as Olga shows in the video above. To cap off the experience, Olga gave me a cup of my favorite tea.
I hope you can see just how doable it is to do the same thing for your special someone. If you are interested in getting step-by-step guides to an additional eight romantic gestures just like this one, be sure to sign up for our FREE video series at the bottom of this post.
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Don’t overlook your best friend. It’s a scary plunge that does deserve some hard thinking before you take the chance – are you willing to risk the possibility of breaking up and making things awkward with a dear friend? However, this is the person that has cared for you at your worst and best, understood you in ways that many other people can’t, and loved you despite (and even because of) your quirks and flaws. Many of us have had best friends that we never get sick of, even as lovers come and go, but we deny the attraction because we’re afraid of losing them entirely if it goes beyond deep friendship. A lot of the time, it’s worth the risk. After all, as with Harry and Sally, the suppressed tension of attraction often jeopardizes the friendship on its own, so you may as well give it a shot.
2. You’ve Got Mail
Fixating on one bad thing can blind you to a world of good. How many great couples would have never come to fruition if they hadn’t been able to look past their rival colleges, competing firms, the way he puts salt on everything before tasting it, the way she overuses emojis, and the fact that one is a vegetarian while the other loves carne asada tacos? Additionally, the lovable pairing of Meg Ryan in her heyday and Tom Hanks in his adorably charm remind us that personalities and minds are what we fall in love with. In their anonymous email friendship, they came to love one another as people without any notions of appearance, wealth, or status. Continue reading >
Most of us get out of bed half-asleep and head straight to the bathroom for a shower to wake-up and start our day. Now imagine you step into the shower, open your eyes, and the first thing you see is a sweet love note from your love on the shower tile. Wouldn’t that be a great way to start your day? The inspiration for this great idea is our now 3-year old daughter Eva who makes a guest appearance in the video above. You see, Eva is not a huge fan of taking baths, so Olga and I were looking for ways to keep her entertained. We discovered these Bathtub Crayons from Crayola, and now, Eva loves taking baths because she can sit and draw to her heart’s content.
The other week, Olga had a brilliant idea. Why not use the Crayola Bathtub Crayons to write a love note for me? So she enlisted Eva’s help, and the result is what you see in the video above. This is such a fun, cute idea and it really did make my morning. It can be a great joint effort with your kids if you have children, and even if not, you can still pick up some Bathtub Crayons and surprise your sweetie with a sweet love note to get his or her day started with a smile.
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Hours – Closed Monday and Tuesday; Open Wednesday-Friday: Noon-10pm; Saturday-Sunday: 10am-10pm.
Parking – There is a parking lot, but on busy nights, be prepared to park on the road outside the lot and then walk up the hill to the observatory. Note that traffic can be a nightmare on nights where there is an event at the Greek Theatre so make sure you check the Greek’s schedule here first and plan accordingly.
Cost – Admission to the grounds and the Observatory itself is FREE. However, there is a $7 charge to see one of the 3 rotating shows in the recently-renovated Planetarium. Tickets can be purchased only at the Observatory, and only for that day’s shows.
Other Questions? – For more information, check out the Griffith Observatory website here.
Step 2: Have a Blast!
You’re at the Observatory. Now it’s time to have some fun! Here are some astronomy-related trivia and jokes you can bust out as you take your date on a tour of the Observatory.
Impress With Your Astronomical Knowledge
Home to the most trafficked telescope in the world! – Since the Observatory’s opening in 1935, more than 7 million people have put an eye to the Observatory’s original 12-inch Zeiss refracting telescope (which you’ll find if you take the elevators to the roof of the Observatory).
You’re in Hollywood, so drop some Hollywood Trivia. On the west lawn as you approach the Observatory from the parking lot, you’ll see a bust of Hollywood icon James Dean. Why, your date might ask? You’ll explain that the Observatory was prominently featured in Rebel Without a Cause (1955), starring Dean (consider renting the movie before or after your date!). The Observatory can also be seen in The Terminator, The People v Larry Flynt, Yes Man, Transformers, and countless other blockbusters and TV shows.
The origin of the saying “Once in a blue moon” — The saying “once in a blue moon” refers to the rare occurrence of two full moons during one calendar month. The last time that occurred was in March 2010. The next time is in August 2012.
Apps for Stargazing – In addition to the 1935 Zeiss telescope, the Observatory often has telescopes set up in the front lawn that you can glance through. These telescopes are incredibly powerful and worth the wait even if there is a line. There are also some incredible smart phone apps for stargazing (I use Star Walk on the iPhone). If you haven’t already, download one of them before you go to the Observatory and then use it as an excuse to get cozy with your date and locate constellations
Crack some Astronomy Jokes – If you’re a cheeseball like me, then you might try your hand at one of these corny astronomy jokes.
Did you hear about the great new restaurant on the moon? The food is excellent, but there’s no atmosphere.
How do you know when the moon is going broke? When it’s down to its last quarter.
What is an astronomical unit? The biggest apartment you’ve ever seen.
An alien traveling around the universe calls up his travel agent to request a hotel room on the moon. The travel agent sadly informs the alien that that there are no hotel rooms available because the moon is full. [This joke is from Ali G’s interview of Buzz Aldrin. If you haven’t seen it, check it out here. Hilarious!]
Nicolaus Copernicus was a mischievous teenager. One day his father got angry when Nicolaus was causing trouble, and screamed at him: “One of these days you’ll realize that the world does not revolve around you!” [Note: If your date gives you a blank stare, you have an opportunity to wow her with those brains again…. Nicolas Copernicus is widely credited with the heliocentric model that displaced the earth as the center of the universe.]
Step 3: Keep Your Date Going
If after the observatory, you’re not ready to call it a night quite yet, consider checking out one of these nearby joints in Los Feliz.
Covell for a glass of wine (or two) – Covell is one of the best wine bars in all of Los Angeles County, and it happens to be just down the street from the Observatory. If you are not a wine connoisseur, the expert bartenders will help you find the perfect glass of wine for you and your date’s palette. Their cheeses and food are fantastic too!
Bru for coffee – if you are not in the mood for alcohol, stop by Bru Coffee Bar for artistan coffee, teas, and pastries. The baristas are pros (and super friendly), and the atmosphere is modern and hip. Note that Bru closes at 10pm so make sure to check the time before you head over.
Thanks for reading. I hope you have as much fun at the Griffith Observatory as we did! Note that the Griffith Observatory is a featured venue in our ebook Epic Dates Los Angeles: A Complete Guide To 10 Epic Dates in Los Angeles. You can claim your copy at the bottom of the this post, or for more information, visit http://epicdatesbook.com
In the video below, I teach you a trick that will take virtually no effort (30 seconds of your time) but will leave the recipient with a smile that last for days. Sound good to you? It’s how you can remove the fortune from a fortune cookie without cracking the shell, and replace it with your own handwritten fortune. This is absolutely perfect for the next time you bring in Chinese take-out. And for those of you looking for a great marriage proposal idea, it could also be a very unique way to propose. Your custom message could be “Will You Marry Me?” or you can even put the ring itself in the cookie.
In addition to the video demo above, here are written instructions as well for your convenience:
Step 1 – Write the custom fortune that you’ll be inserting into the fortune cookie on a piece of paper (approximately 1/2 inch by 2 inches in dimension).
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